It’s been awhile since I last wrote something serious… teka, nagsulat na ba ako ng serious dito? Haha!

Well, after V wrote this in his blog… http://victorbasa.net/post/81974091033/word-of-advice-the-way-to-find-each-other-again naisip kong needsung ko sya sagutin at dahil masmagaling akong sumulat. Choz!

To those reading this blog, medyo knows nyo na yung D+V ganap. Yung mga paandar namin na ganito…

We started as friends and pag sinabi kong friends, yung bagets level ha. Piko, jackstones, patintero. Haha! Although d naman kami close sa school, we both went to the same school. But I really got to know him nung naabutan ko na sya sa modelling. Ang timing nakakatawa din, coz when he was starting to really get into modelling, I left for Hong Kong naman to model, so ang tadhana nga naman hindi nakisama. When I got back, nakapasok na sya sa barkada and we would do shoots together na. Actually favorite sya ng isa kong closest friends na si Elmer at Ino Caluza kasi madaling yayain daw. haha! In short, kaladkarin. So there we became close as barkadas, lahat ng sumpong, issues at kung ano ano pa namin- naging shoulder to cry on kami ng bawat isa.

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*Ayan sa photo pa start palang ng lovestory namin. Dalawang heart broken. And sandamukmuk na single sa barkada, so nagkaron kami ng mumomoments sunday wherein every sunday nagkikita kami para mag kwentuhan at hulasan sa mga nasawi naming lovelife. haha!

Eventually, tinamaan ng lintik. Haha! Everyone was not for it. Syempre yung very teleserye na masisira ang friendship lumaganap. But I guess with the years we have under our belt, na prove na namin sa kanila.

V is right when he wrote in his blog that our main foundation is friendship. Kaya kahit ngayon, pag magasaran kami ganun parin. And sometimes for the same reason that makes our relationship strong, nawawaley ang romantic part. Eh kasi nga para kaming barkada, at parati akong pinapalibutan ng 100 beckies. haha!

We all need romance in our relationship and eyffort yun. Kailangan you make time to rediscover one another. Although, since uso ang independent woman sabi ni Beyonce, I am not for revolving your world around a man. Masbongga yung you grow on your own para you always have something new to bring to the relationship. V does a lot of things on his own- may hockey yan, geeky nights, mens wear syndicate, and work. Same naman with me na nachronicle ko ata lahat ng paandar ko sa instagram- from work, beckies, school, mga ganap ko na Rosa Rosal, at madami pang iba. But how do you really keep the fire burning ika nga sa kanta? I am no expert at wala pang period ang love story namin like THE NOTEBOOK but from what we have right now eto yun.

 

Make everyday count

Ayan grabbed from his blog post. Do things that make each other grow- spiritually and emotionally. People may not know but pareho kaming religious sa sarili naming ganap. Si V, madalas sa Padre Pio since bagets pa sya. Actually, nagulat nga ako when he first brought me there kasi pati mga janitors knows nya. Tumatambay pala sya dun dati. Yes, sa simbahan. And kahit simple daily things, try to make it a day to remember. Minsan kasi sa pagkabusy natin nakakalimutan natin, but konting effort. Make it today! Bilhan mo sya ng fave drink nya, or plan a trip sa childhood street mo para masight nya something na d nya pa alam about you.

 

Wag matulog ng magkaaway

 

IMG_0370OO, mahilig ako matulog sa kotse. Hahaha!

Cliche ba? Totoo parin for us eh. Basta kung ano man yun, isang tabi nyo muna and to be continued the next day. Kadalasan nakakalimutan nyo na yun the next day. Kasi bago na ihip ng hangin. Eh ako pa naman sobrang pikon, sya naman galing mangpikon. Yung pagkapikon, pagtinulog wala na. So usually napagtatawanan namin yung pinagawayan.

 

Take trips

 

 

 

 

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Doesn’t matter kung dito, sa kanto, sa kabilang dagat. It’s nice to discover new places together. And the trips talaga let you experience one another. Si V mahilig yan pag may bihirang freeday kami, tawag nya kidnap. Saan saan kami umaabot. Kahit na balikan lang like mag bulalo sa Tagaytay. Minsan kahit sa Manila lang ikot sa isang place na pareho pa namin d napuntahan together like nagBinondo ganap kami. With this meron kyong something to look forward to and to discover. Dadami pa memories nyo together.

 

2-way street and allow each person to grow tapos support that

 

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Magkaibang tao kayo. Magkaiaba ang pagpapalaki, magkaiba ang values, kahit kambal nga magkaiba d ba? Respect that. And nurture nyo yung growth ng bawat isa. D naman keri na kayong dalawa lang , me against the world. BE EXCITED. Be excited when he is discovering something new, be excited pag may bago syang hobby and try to support that. And same with you, dapat nag grow ka parin as an individual. Kung ikaw mismo hindi na excited sa buhay mo, paano mo pa aasahan maexcite yung partner mo sayo? Encourage excitement and new things 🙂

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Our love story is still in the making. Hindi naman kami hypocrito na magsasabi ng forever and ever. Although we would want that and that is our goal. But for what we have now, we are happy. At kung may tamaan man ng kidlat sa amin dalawa at hindi na kami makapagpatuloy sa ibang chapters, I think our moments spent with each other made the most imprint in our lives. Kung baga, malaking chapter sa buhay namin. Lahat ng highlights ni direk sa mga moments namin mapupunta. Make it count nga d ba? Romance as I said in the video, are not with grand ganaps but with the small things in life. Ineeffort yan. Hindi kami perfect but we make it a point to think of things to make each one happy and that causes us to be happy also for ourselves.

To the next chapter of our love story 🙂 Kaya #IbalikAngRomantique

Much love,

D