People said life is not easy. True. As positive as I may seem, d naman langit ang kama ko at palaging masaya ang gising. Day, minsan din tinatamaan ako ng kalungkutan (or kulam ba yun? haha!).

I realized it’s time to talk about this. I got so many messages/questions about how to deal with a bad day, break-up, hiwalayan portion at iba iba pa. Lahat tayo nagdadaan dyan. Wit ang sarap kung walang hirap diba? But in the end, it’s not how hard we fall that matters but how bongga we stand up. I mean, do you remember ba yung pag bagsak ni Miriam Q sa Ms. Universe? Hindi. Masnaaalala natin yung bongga nyang reentry at pagsagot nya na nang fierce when asked about her fall nang ” I believe that I have stood up for the rest of the women who have fallen whether on or off the stage. I believe that through this example of mine I have shown courage and strength of being a woman, of being who I am, and I hope to be a good example to the rest of the women in the world.” Eh d panalo ng 1st runner up ang loley nyo! In short, ang magaling magcomeback ay winner!

Yun yung sinasabi ko. Tumayo ka and rampa another day. Deadma to chenes na negativity. Be positive. Attract good vibes (baka pati booking ma-attract nyo). Sino ba naman ang nakakabooking nang nakasimangot d ba? We all go through our ups and downs, but what makes us what we are is how we deal with it. Sa pelikula nalang nangyayari yung kapit sa dingding at lumpasay factor. Smile and fight! MAGMAGANDA KA! Don’t take me the wrong way ha, I didn’t mean wag kang umiyak. Kung forte mong mag-crayola then gow. But stand up right after, humarap sa salamin at tignan mo ang chaka pagsmear ang mukup. So magretouch ka and smile. The world is always waiting for a good comeback 🙂

Sometimes, I wake up nang mabigat ang puso, weak or sad. The first thing I do is to look at my bed. Salamat, may kama ako at nakatulog ako. Then look around- for sure you will see something you value in your room- may it be a photo of your friends (salamat sa friendshipeys), the laptop na pinagipunan mo, yung bago mong lipstick, yung halls candy wrapper ng crush mo natinagotago mo… there’s always something to be thankful and happy about. Then work your way from there. Do it the whole day if needed (kung ganun ka ka emotera), basta remind yourself that no matter what you are going through, you are still very blessed.

God gave us personal strength to help us through. At andyan din sya if nagiinarte ka na na hindi mo na kaya may …phone a friend, 50-50 or ask the audience. Maraming paraan sya tumulong. Just open your eyes.

Honestly, believe it or not. I get part of my strength from you guys. Gisingin nyo ba naman ako ng bonggang bonggang mga compliments noh. Parang birthday ko daily. So ganyan, tulungan tayo. I’m always here to answer you guys. Para sa mga demanding, oo na minsan late! haha!

Before i end this post, I really want to thank someone who made me open my tumblr. Ayaw nya magpasabi kasi strict ang payrents nya (charot). But kidding aside, she really doesn’t want me to blog about her (now.. next time na daw pag ready na sya sa speech nya at nagprapractice magbeckimese) but andyan na sya sa mga post ko before. When I asked her why did you force me to open a vlaggey.. she answered “because I wanted people to know the real you. You were down and out and you needed to feel the bonggang bonggang love.” See? nagwork. I feel so much love. Now I’m paying it forward.

Oh sige, tama na emoterang echos ko. haha! gets nyo na? so smile and world smiles with you! pagtinapunan kayo ng bato, parehab nyo! addict yun! haha! 🙂

so when you’re feeling down… MAGMAGANDA KA! 🙂

Nagmamahal,

Inang Reyna

CHOZ!

Much love,

D

  • Kathleen Claire Cañeja

    I maybe late but… THIS BLOG IS AWESOME. You’ve never failed to make me laugh about yr blogs Ms. D. Saka once in a blue moon ka lang mag-emote kaya ramdam ko. HAHAH! Na-inspire ang lola mo dahil sa words of wisdom mo! 😀 Thank youuu! Kailangan kailagan ko magmaganda e! Mehehehehe <3